"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and …
"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and faucets; maybe you really get shoes and hairstyles, in which case - go with the shoes and the hairstyles. Although, I'm thinking of a coworker who once talked to me, very competently, about wrap dresses, and even though I thought it was an interesting conversation, I still found it creepy/simpy. It left a bad taste.
"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and faucets; maybe you really get shoes and hairstyles, in which case - go with the shoes and the hairstyles. Although, I'm thinking of a coworker who once talked to me, very competently, about wrap dresses, and even though I thought it was an interesting conversation, I still found it creepy/simpy. It left a bad taste.