Thanks.
It's reassuring to know my work on fundamentals (health, job, life goals) will be put to good use.
I will keep working on the meeting bit and I did not think about the car and faucets type of thing. Instead I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her c…
It's reassuring to know my work on fundamentals (health, job, life goals) will be put to good use.
I will keep working on the meeting bit and I did not think about the car and faucets type of thing. Instead I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)
I am working on the fundamentals of a healthy relationship, I can read about it but I still haven't seen it. It's one of the reasons why it is so important for me to find a partner who has a stable family, so I can learn from them when in doubt.
If you got any recommended blogs or the like that offers more good advice I would love to catch up on those in my spare time. I need to learn from those who have had success.
"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and faucets; maybe you really get shoes and hairstyles, in which case - go with the shoes and the hairstyles. Although, I'm thinking of a coworker who once talked to me, very competently, about wrap dresses, and even though I thought it was an interesting conversation, I still found it creepy/simpy. It left a bad taste.
Thanks.
It's reassuring to know my work on fundamentals (health, job, life goals) will be put to good use.
I will keep working on the meeting bit and I did not think about the car and faucets type of thing. Instead I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)
I am working on the fundamentals of a healthy relationship, I can read about it but I still haven't seen it. It's one of the reasons why it is so important for me to find a partner who has a stable family, so I can learn from them when in doubt.
If you got any recommended blogs or the like that offers more good advice I would love to catch up on those in my spare time. I need to learn from those who have had success.
Either way thank you again.
And of course, a sort of well known secret: these things tend to happen when you lest expect it. :)
Good luck!
"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and faucets; maybe you really get shoes and hairstyles, in which case - go with the shoes and the hairstyles. Although, I'm thinking of a coworker who once talked to me, very competently, about wrap dresses, and even though I thought it was an interesting conversation, I still found it creepy/simpy. It left a bad taste.