I was writing this big long thing and accidentally deleted it - but here it goes... hope this helps...
In terms of actually meeting girls -that's hard to say. Usually Christians have an easy time of this since meeting ppl usually means church involvement. If there are no young ladies there, perhaps there's a nice old lady who happens to h…
I was writing this big long thing and accidentally deleted it - but here it goes... hope this helps...
In terms of actually meeting girls -that's hard to say. Usually Christians have an easy time of this since meeting ppl usually means church involvement. If there are no young ladies there, perhaps there's a nice old lady who happens to have a lovely granddaughter.
Trad girls are typically looking for stability and reliability. So have your "house" in order. Can you provide financially? You don't need to be rich, but you should have a good job as a reliable employee - no flakey ambitions. Pay attention to things women don't typically pay attention to. Is her car running ok? Is her faucets leaking? These are psychic signals men put out that attract women.
Hopefully you're not burdened by your past and understand the fundamentals of a healthy relationship.
Trad girls are feminine and looking for a real man - in the trad sense. He's confident, reliable and can make decisions. He knows where he's going, but he's happy to have her along for the ride.
It's reassuring to know my work on fundamentals (health, job, life goals) will be put to good use.
I will keep working on the meeting bit and I did not think about the car and faucets type of thing. Instead I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)
I am working on the fundamentals of a healthy relationship, I can read about it but I still haven't seen it. It's one of the reasons why it is so important for me to find a partner who has a stable family, so I can learn from them when in doubt.
If you got any recommended blogs or the like that offers more good advice I would love to catch up on those in my spare time. I need to learn from those who have had success.
"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and faucets; maybe you really get shoes and hairstyles, in which case - go with the shoes and the hairstyles. Although, I'm thinking of a coworker who once talked to me, very competently, about wrap dresses, and even though I thought it was an interesting conversation, I still found it creepy/simpy. It left a bad taste.
I was writing this big long thing and accidentally deleted it - but here it goes... hope this helps...
In terms of actually meeting girls -that's hard to say. Usually Christians have an easy time of this since meeting ppl usually means church involvement. If there are no young ladies there, perhaps there's a nice old lady who happens to have a lovely granddaughter.
Trad girls are typically looking for stability and reliability. So have your "house" in order. Can you provide financially? You don't need to be rich, but you should have a good job as a reliable employee - no flakey ambitions. Pay attention to things women don't typically pay attention to. Is her car running ok? Is her faucets leaking? These are psychic signals men put out that attract women.
Hopefully you're not burdened by your past and understand the fundamentals of a healthy relationship.
Trad girls are feminine and looking for a real man - in the trad sense. He's confident, reliable and can make decisions. He knows where he's going, but he's happy to have her along for the ride.
Thanks.
It's reassuring to know my work on fundamentals (health, job, life goals) will be put to good use.
I will keep working on the meeting bit and I did not think about the car and faucets type of thing. Instead I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)
I am working on the fundamentals of a healthy relationship, I can read about it but I still haven't seen it. It's one of the reasons why it is so important for me to find a partner who has a stable family, so I can learn from them when in doubt.
If you got any recommended blogs or the like that offers more good advice I would love to catch up on those in my spare time. I need to learn from those who have had success.
Either way thank you again.
And of course, a sort of well known secret: these things tend to happen when you lest expect it. :)
Good luck!
"I kind of went on the opposite approach, trying to notice things women usually pay attention to (do her shoes match her clothes, did her hair style change, etc...)". Hmm, maybe OK, as long as it isn't creepy. It usually is.
If you simply display your competence, you'll be sending the right signal. I don't know if you care about cars and faucets; maybe you really get shoes and hairstyles, in which case - go with the shoes and the hairstyles. Although, I'm thinking of a coworker who once talked to me, very competently, about wrap dresses, and even though I thought it was an interesting conversation, I still found it creepy/simpy. It left a bad taste.